I am Zora’s daughter. She didn’t know it, but she took my soul with her
as she gathered her stories. My ear remained rapt as she taught me
dialect and put a piece of me within Janie. Auntie Alice taught me my burden. She showed me the contrasts
of strong Black women versus
those who are broken and let me know what they were doing to my sisters
in Africa. Great-Aunt Maya showed me that the arch I carry in my back
was not flawed, but “phenomenal” and gave me answers to life’s hard
questions that roll off my tongue like honey and
fly like sweet daggers into the hearts of those who oppress me. My
cousin Sonia came up right behind her and put music in my womanly words
that helped me to dance my way out of oblivion. Auntie Nikki gave me the
chip on my shoulder that let me walk “with the
thugs than the people who are complaining about them”. Uncle Bruce and Cousin Audre
made me a femme fatale by letting me step into the center of the fight
and see the rainbow in all its colors. I could better do this with
tongue Uncle Amiri helped me sharpened when people
set off bombs and placed the blame on others. He taught me the power of
“poems that kill”. Cousin Langston let me run beside him and bask in
the gleam of the river that is me and see the power of my dreams in its
reflections. Uncle Jean taught me that no matter
how bright that reflection, it was what my soul was sewn to that
determined my identity. He helped me to discover that Lost Generation.
Great-Uncles Paul and Claude’s souls smile down on me as I talk about MY
America, find kindred spirits and belt out a poetic love song as
an ode to us as “a smile go flittin' by”. Oh, but Great Aunt Gwendolyn
showed me how to compose myself and bring back the bounce in my step
while hiding the happiness deep within my heart.
“We real cool” she said and gave me back my mystery. It is because my
blood runs strongly this way that I do not hang my head, but raise it and
puff out my chest. I strike fear in hearts one moment, but in the next,
swaddle them like babes to my breast. They have
given me the gift of the precious dichotomy of sweet mother and strict
disciplinarian because they knew I was strong enough to bear it. It is
because of them that I can go from howling hooker to well-rounded wife
through my words and still be respected in the morning.
Our family tree stands strong in its field as the winds of change blow.
We do not apologize for the sway of our branches, but acknowledge how
bountiful the land is just because we are present. We let the earth write
thank you notes that fall at our feet like bright
leaves. The universe dances for us and we can change the song whenever
we choose.
TK
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